How do you grieve, how does someone else grieve, and what things can support you in your grief journey, and what can best support them? 

I really like how Heather addressed all of these questions and provided examples for each grief journey.  She is a great astrologer, and her specialty is medical astrology - and here she laid out step-by-step help for everyone.  This is her YouTube channel, and I highly suggest you follow and subscribe if you have an interest in astrology.  ​https://www.youtube.com/@AstrologywithHeather

And if you are looking for some assistance on where to see your own chart and to find the information, so you will know what house to focus on, I got you! 

First, to get your own astrology chart, or clockface, for free, go to this link:
 https://horoscopes.astro-seek.com/birth-chart-horoscope-online
There, you will put in your birth details.  The cool thing, too, is you can look at another person's chart also, as a way to support them.  For example, maybe your dad died, and you want to help support your siblings or your mom.  

Once you get your results it will look something like this, with numbers in that center rings, and astrology signs in the outer rings.  You will want to locate your #8, that's your 8th house, and the sign that is in the outer ring of that "pie wedge" or house.  

Then to find your traditional ruler, use this chart: 

Aries – Mars
Taurus – Venus
Gemini – Mercury
Cancer – Moon
Leo – Sun
Virgo – Mercury
Libra – Venus
Scorpio – Pluto (Mars)
Sagittarius – Jupiter
Capricorn – Saturn
Aquarius – Uranus (Saturn)
Pisces – Neptune (Jupiter)

Then one more step and you will know which one is yours.  You need to see where that planet is on your clockface.

If you aren't sure what the planet sigils, or glyphs, look like, you can use this pretend person chart I created as an example.  Scroll to the bottom, and you will see the glyph, then the word sun and data after it.  You just go down that row using the glyph and the planet to find the match.  

​Now, can you also find the 8th house in this example? And the sign? 

In this example, the 8th house shows Cancer in the outer circle.  Using our chart from above, you know that Cancer and the Moon are a match.  Looking in the wedges with the planets, you will find the symbol for the moon is in the 3rd house (the pie wedge with the #3 on the inner ring), and going back to the beginning of this page (scroll up) to the video Heather put together, you will relisten to the 3rd house section, for ideas and tools to heal in your grief journey.  

If my walk-through example didn't make sense, or you found it difficult to follow, she also has in her show notes her own version of explaining how to find the data; give hers a try!  Her tools are also a free share, and she is a great teacher!